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My partner and I have been together for a few years. He says it gives him security if he feel s inferior and that I am in charge.
Does he really want this, or is it just fantasy? If he were to discuss it at times other than when he is highly aroused during sex, you could consider it a more serious proposal.
I would not take this at face value; most people fantasise about things they would never dream of doing in reality. Anyway, he is less aroused by the idea that you would be with other men than by the notion of your being sexually powerful in controlling the scene, and there are many other ways you could take charge.
He is obviously aroused by erotic conversation so, if you are able to feel less threatened by these erotic notions, you could consider ing in the conversation. Accepting an erotic challenge often le to elevated pleasure.
If he should persist in a quest to make fantasy a reality, you have a right to set boundaries. Unless you are extremely cautious, and engage in careful negotiation with all parties, acting out a fantasy of adding partners in real life courts relationship strife. Pamela Stephenson Connolly is a US-based psychotherapist who specialises in treating sexual disorders. If you would like advice from Pamela on sexual matters, send us a brief description of your concerns to private.
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